[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.bosman.cz\/strach-z-ex-aneb-jak-se-vyrovnat-s-partnerovou-minulosti\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.bosman.cz\/strach-z-ex-aneb-jak-se-vyrovnat-s-partnerovou-minulosti\/","headline":"Strach z ex, aneb jak se vyrovnat s partnerovou minulost\u00ed","name":"Strach z ex, aneb jak se vyrovnat s partnerovou minulost\u00ed","description":"Nem\u00e1 smysl si nic nalh\u00e1vat. Pokud jste vy i v\u00e1\u0161 partner v\u00a0ur\u010dit\u00e9m v\u011bku, m\u00e1te s\u00a0nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed pravd\u011bpodobnost\u00ed oba ji\u017e leccos za sebou. A\u0165 u\u017e se jedn\u00e1 o v\u00e1\u017en\u00e9 vztahy, kr\u00e1tk\u00e9 rom\u00e1nky nebo povrchn\u00ed jednor\u00e1zov\u00e9 z\u00e1le\u017eitosti, nem\u011bli byste se t\u00edm spolu zab\u00fdvat. Se\u010dteno a podtr\u017eeno, co bylo, to bylo, a minulost nem\u00e1 v\u00a0\u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b smysl opra\u0161ovat nebo","datePublished":"2025-03-08","dateModified":"2023-05-01","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.bosman.cz\/author\/devene\/#Person","name":"devene","url":"https:\/\/www.bosman.cz\/author\/devene\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/383247cd769f7ac317a5bcda943ec48a3c79d996598ae4564ec21a0e178126d1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/383247cd769f7ac317a5bcda943ec48a3c79d996598ae4564ec21a0e178126d1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"bosman.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.bosman.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a342714_w2079_t1555938586.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.bosman.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a342714_w2079_t1555938586.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.bosman.cz\/strach-z-ex-aneb-jak-se-vyrovnat-s-partnerovou-minulosti\/","wordCount":686,"articleBody":"Nem\u00e1 smysl si nic nalh\u00e1vat. Pokud jste vy i v\u00e1\u0161 partner v\u00a0ur\u010dit\u00e9m v\u011bku, m\u00e1te s\u00a0nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed pravd\u011bpodobnost\u00ed oba ji\u017e leccos za sebou. A\u0165 u\u017e se jedn\u00e1 o v\u00e1\u017en\u00e9 vztahy, kr\u00e1tk\u00e9 rom\u00e1nky nebo povrchn\u00ed jednor\u00e1zov\u00e9 z\u00e1le\u017eitosti, nem\u011bli byste se t\u00edm spolu zab\u00fdvat. Se\u010dteno a podtr\u017eeno, co bylo, to bylo, a minulost nem\u00e1 v\u00a0\u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b smysl opra\u0161ovat nebo \u2013 co\u017e je mnohem hor\u0161\u00ed varianta \u2013 ji vn\u00e1\u0161et do p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00e9ho vztahu a do toho, co pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1te spole\u010dn\u011b.\tTo se lehko \u0159ekne. Ale jsme jen lid\u00e9. Proto se nemus\u00edte styd\u011bt za to, \u017ee si ob\u010das vzpomenete, co v\u00e1m partner \u0159\u00edkal o sv\u00e9 b\u00fdval\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edtelkyni, jak\u00e1 byla, co d\u011blala, a p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edte, zda se j\u00ed vyrovn\u00e1te. N\u011bkdy si \u010dlov\u011bk srovn\u00e1v\u00e1 p\u0159ed a po, a v\u00a0p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, \u017ee mu partner tyto informace nepodal, je snadn\u00e9 si dom\u00fd\u0161let, co se asi tak mezi nimi tehdy pokazilo.\tD\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 nen\u00ed sp\u00edlat si za to, \u017ee se v\u00a0duchu srovn\u00e1v\u00e1me s\u00a0partnerov\u00fdmi ex p\u0159\u00edtelkyn\u011bmi. H\u0159\u00edchem by v\u0161ak bylo zapl\u0148ovat si n\u011b\u010d\u00edm takov\u00fdm dlouhodob\u011b svou mysl. Nen\u00ed to nic p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9ho, a proto bychom s\u00a0takov\u00fdmi my\u0161lenkami (nebo nedej bo\u017ee s\u00a0t\u00e9maty v\u00a0diskuzi s\u00a0partnerem) m\u011bli ihned skoncovat a zam\u011b\u0159it se prim\u00e1rn\u011b na sebe.\tJak to ud\u011blat?\t\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Nep\u00e1trejte po nich na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch. Hled\u00e1n\u00ed profil\u016f na Facebooku je naprosto tabu. V\u00a0p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, \u017ee kdy v\u00e1s sv\u011bd\u00ed prsty a m\u00e1te chu\u0165 zjistit, jak te\u010f dan\u00e9 \u017eeny vypadaj\u00ed nebo co d\u011blaj\u00ed, zapome\u0148te na to a vsugerujte si, \u017ee v\u00e1s to naprosto nezaj\u00edm\u00e1.\t\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Neptejte se na n\u011b. P\u0159esto\u017ee lidsk\u00e1 zv\u011bdavost je nekone\u010dn\u00e1, toto je t\u00e9ma, kde by ur\u010dit\u00e9 bari\u00e9ry m\u011bly b\u00fdt. Ne v\u00a0tom smyslu, aby se z\u00a0p\u0159\u00edtelov\u00fdch minul\u00fdch zn\u00e1most\u00ed stalo tabu, ale pouze tak, abyste na n\u011b nezav\u00e1d\u011bla \u0159e\u010d opakovan\u011b a z\u00e1m\u011brn\u011b. Pro\u010d? Pokud v\u00e1m ji\u017e prozradil z\u00e1kladn\u00ed informace, nejsp\u00ed\u0161 nic v\u00edc v\u011bd\u011bt nepot\u0159ebujete. Z\u00a0nikoho nic nedolujte a \u017eijte s\u00a0t\u00edm, co v\u00edte.\t\t\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Nesrovn\u00e1vejte se s\u00a0nimi. Hlavn\u00edm \u00fa\u010delem, pro\u010d se chceme o dan\u00fdch osob\u00e1ch n\u011bco dozv\u011bd\u011bt je prim\u00e1rn\u00ed lidsk\u00e1 pot\u0159eba neust\u00e1le n\u011bco porovn\u00e1vat a pom\u011b\u0159ovat. Jsem hez\u010d\u00ed, ne\u017e ona? M\u00e1m lep\u0161\u00ed vkus v\u00a0obl\u00e9k\u00e1n\u00ed? Jsem \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u011bj\u0161\u00ed? A takto bychom mohli pokra\u010dovat donekone\u010dna. Odpov\u011b\u010f na v\u0161echny tyto ot\u00e1zky je prost\u00e1 \u2013 \u201elep\u0161\u00ed\u201c ne\u017e n\u011bkdo jin\u00fd budete od t\u00e9 doby, kdy tomu sami za\u010dnete v\u011b\u0159it. Uv\u011bdomte si, jak jste jedine\u010dn\u00e1 a \u017ee u\u017e jen ze samotn\u00e9 podstaty v\u011bci, a sice, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00e1 \u017eena je jin\u00e1 a ka\u017ed\u00e1 je n\u011b\u010d\u00edm v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00e1, nem\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1dnou logiku hledat souvislosti mezi v\u00e1mi anebo nedej bo\u017ee soupe\u0159it pomysln\u011b o to, kdo m\u00e1 v\u00edc. Vy m\u00e1te nejv\u00edc, proto\u017ee m\u00e1te sama sebe!\t\u00b7\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ne\u017e\u00e1rlete. Nem\u00e1 smysl \u017e\u00e1rlit na n\u011bco, co s\u00a0n\u00e1mi ji\u017e nen\u00ed a co nem\u00e1 naprosto \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd vliv na n\u00e1\u0161 vztah. Pokud se p\u0159\u00edtel \u010das od \u010dasu o sv\u00e9 b\u00fdval\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edtelkyni n\u011bkde zm\u00edn\u00ed (samoz\u0159ejm\u011b kdy\u017e o n\u00ed nemluv\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00fd den, potom by to bylo trochu podez\u0159el\u00e9), nebo ji potk\u00e1te a oni se pozdrav\u00ed \u010di daj\u00ed do \u0159e\u010di, ned\u011blejte kv\u016fli tomu sc\u00e9nu. A\u010d je to nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9, ti dva k\u00a0sob\u011b v\u00a0ur\u010dit\u00e9 dob\u011b sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota m\u011bli bl\u00edzko a tvo\u0159ili p\u00e1r. Nevy\u0161lo to, a te\u010f jej v\u00e1\u0161 druh tvo\u0159\u00ed s\u00a0v\u00e1mi. To jsou vztahy, to je \u017eivot. Proto se nedurd\u011bte a \u017eijte p\u0159\u00edtomnost\u00ed.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.8\/5 - (9 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Strach z ex, aneb jak se vyrovnat s partnerovou minulost\u00ed","item":"https:\/\/www.bosman.cz\/strach-z-ex-aneb-jak-se-vyrovnat-s-partnerovou-minulosti\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]